"So don't make it about feelings," Kate says, like that's totally obvious (because it is) before turning away to get another cup. When she turns back and holds one out to Daphne, she shrugs. "Guys are dense, but they're pretty simple. If you want to know if he's interested, wait til the next time there's a moment and kiss him. If he gets weird about it, just say you're sorry and you thought it was what he wanted and you were misreading the signals. And then act like it's no big deal. Worst thing that happens is he's weird for a few days."

She makes a face while she pours her coffee. "You could just ask him, but he might lie no matter how he feels. Most guys your age don't turn down a chance to make out unless they're definitely no way into it. Half the time it hasn't even really crossed their minds until you kiss them."